STOP ACTING VICTIM! I always hear ladies say "He just used and dumped me, after all I suffered with him, after all I did for him ". My dear friend, if you didn't give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan to start a business, you did nothing. That you drank garri with him is because you're also broke. If not, you would have prepared a decent meal. That you stayed i...