Here I am engaged to marry the “man of my dreams”We’ve been courting for 3 years but for some reason, I didn’t see this guy in my future. Our parents knew each other. His parents were ready to come and start the introduction and the general marriage rites but for some reason, my mother was not comfortable with him. Mothers shaaaaa… I knew that I have to marry a man after God’s heart. Times and times again, I kept on having a check in my spirit with no peace of mind.So I decided to go to God in prayer. I didn’t have anything comprehensive just a simple one “God if this man is right for me, bind us together in your love and if he isn’t, in your mercy separate us”. Daily at different times of the day, I prayed this. It took another 5 months for this to be answered.
Guess what, he had sex and impregnated another lady 3 months before he came to tell me. He said he doesn’t know what happened to him. I struggled with it but I forgave him eventually. After 6 months, the baby was born. I just felt okay it’s one child, we will sort it out. I never stopped praying over the whole matter with the previous words. Just when I thought that he was going to have learnt a lesson, he slept with another. Ha!!! You know the saying that what happens before marriage is what will happen magnificently after marriage. My people, I can’t and won’t cope with infidelity. No never. I just didn’t have it in me to understand it.
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